Navigating Single Parent Surrogacy

We have previously discussed being a surrogate if you don't have a partner, but what about when the intended parent is single? Single parent surrogacy empowers individuals to build the families they’ve always dreamed of while navigating the specific considerations that come with being a sole parent.

In this blog post, we explore how the surrogacy process adapts for single intended parents and what surrogates can expect from this meaningful partnership.

Understanding the Single Parent-Surrogate Dynamic

Single intended parents are often deeply involved in every step of the process, as they take sole responsibility for decision-making and preparations for their future child. This level of involvement can create a collaborative and rewarding experience for both the surrogate and the intended parent. Many surrogates appreciate this direct connection, as it allows for open conversations about shared goals, expectations, and milestones throughout the pregnancy.

While the dynamic may differ from journeys involving couples, it is equally special and rewarding, emphasizing trust, teamwork, and the shared joy of creating a new life.

Options for Single Intended Parents in Surrogacy

Single intended parents have a variety of options to grow their families through surrogacy, depending on their personal circumstances and preferences:

1. Gestational Surrogacy

   In gestational surrogacy, the surrogate carries an embryo created with in vitro fertilization (IVF). However, the surrogate shares no DNA with the baby.

   
   

2. Egg or Sperm Donation

   Single women often rely on sperm donors, while single men typically partner with egg donors. These donations allow single parents to move forward with the surrogacy process confidently and with a biological connection to their baby if possible.

   
   

3. Domestic and International Surrogacy

   Single parents may choose surrogates within their home country or abroad. Laws and logistics differ, so working with an experienced surrogacy agency is crucial for navigating the complexities.

   
   

The Surrogate's Journey With a Single Parent

Surrogates who choose to work with single intended parents often express a deep sense of purpose in helping individuals who might not otherwise experience parenthood. Here are a few things surrogates can expect:

• Building a Relationship: Since there isn't a second parent involved, the surrogate and intended parent may develop a more personal and focused connection. This often means more frequent one-on-one communication and shared milestones throughout the pregnancy.

• Preparing for Post-Birth Support: Surrogates may naturally wonder how the intended parent plans to transition into their new role after the baby is born. While single parents often have well-thought-out support networks of family, friends, or professionals, open conversations during the surrogacy journey can ensure a smooth transition.

• Aligning Expectations: Surrogates and single parents must discuss topics such as parenting values, future communication, and involvement in the child's life (if applicable). This clarity creates the foundation for a seamless surrogacy journey.

  
  

Start Your Journey

If you’re a single person considering surrogacy, know that your journey is as valid and fulfilling as any other—and that the right surrogate is waiting to help you make your dream a reality.

If you are interested in becoming a surrogate to support single intended parents, you can find out if you qualify using our online form. And if you're a single surrogate yourself, be sure to read our related blog post. We look forward to hearing from you!